Proposing marriage or accepting an engagement ring is usually very romantic for both members of a couple. Of course, the planning process is stressful and leaves many brides and grooms feeling overwhelmed and anything but peaceful. If you want to make your wedding planning as much fun as the actual wedding will be, follow these ideas.
The most important part of marriage is the person you plan on marrying. There is no reason to hurry things--you have an entire lifetime with this person! Give careful thought to that person, what you absolutely must have in your life, and what might irritate you.
Online classified websites are a great place to seek out local talent for your wedding. Prior to giving them a dime, meet them personally, but have your groom along for safety.
There are many people you'll want to take photos with during your wedding. Perhaps you should schedule a time for group pictures, since getting everyone's attention during the reception will be hard. Before the party is underway, inform guests when and where they should be for a brief photo session.
If you have children involved in your ceremony, be sure to outfit them in comfortable clothes. Choose fabrics that are softer and loose-fitting, in order to maintain a high comfort level. Shoes, especially if new, should be comfortable and broken in. Attention to these details will help the children focus on their part in the wedding instead of fussing with their clothing.
If you are going to use a wedding cake with vibrant colors, opt for a coordinating tablecloth. You can use solids, patters, silk, velvet or satin to tie the elements all together.
You can a choose a menu that combines the best of both families and their culture. You can also offer desserts, drinks, or edible favors with an ethnic twist.
At your wedding, there will definitely be many different guests that you will want to take photographs with. This can be hard, especially if it's a big wedding with lots of attendees and very little time to give them. Tell your guests ahead of time where and when you would like to take pictures, and work with your photographer to designate a good time and place for shooting.
Do not allow yourself to be weighed down by obligation to traditions; this is your wedding and should be planned accordingly. Be kind and loving if you have to reject your extended family's suggestions, but don't let them dominate or manipulate you. Firmly assert that you (and of course your partner too) have the final say when it comes to your wedding plans. That way, you could look back at the day of your wedding without any regrets.
For example, choosing which flowers you want to have in your bouquet or table settings will rely on what's available in your new location. Contact florists near the destination and you can find out which flowers are available.
If you plan on giving a wedding speech, plan it and practice enough. If you do not plan your speech, you may cause the audience to stop paying attention, or you just might get stage fright.
Once you know who all is going to give a speech at your wedding, hold a rehearsal for everyone so you can censor out inappropriate material. If there are going to be different generations there, you don't want to offend anyone.
After reading these tips, it's safe to say that you probably weren't aware of even half of these ideas. And that's because no one ever realizes just how much goes into planning a wedding until they're actually staring at it in the face. A wedding is perhaps the most detail-oriented celebration out there, so be sure that you're using these tips to help you out.
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